The "My Way" killings are a social phenomenon in the Philippines, where the killing of karaoke singers who get into disputes about their renditions of Frank Sinatra's signature tune, "My Way", has led some bars to ban the song and other singers to abstain from singing it. Opinions differ over whether the deadly pattern is due more to the coincidence that the song was frequently sung amid the violence of the nation's karaoke bars or to the aggressive lyrics of the song itself.1 Contents 1 History 2 Measures to prevent violence 3 Explanations 4 References History In the decade up to 2010, about a half dozen killings occurred in the Philippines in connection with strenuous complaints over the quality of particular offerings of the song, prompting Filipino newspapers to name the phenomenon the "'My Way' killings". The exact number of deaths is unknown.1 On May 29, 2007, a 29-year-old karaoke singer of "My Way" at a bar in San Mateo, Rizal, was shot dead as he sang the tune, allegedly by the bar's security guard, who was arrested after the incident.2 According to reports, the guard complained that the young man's rendition was off-key, and when the victim refused to stop singing, the guard pulled out a .38-caliber pistol and shot the man dead.3

Vocalizing the tune can be dangerous not only for the singer but for critics in the vicinity. According to one newspaper report, when the friend of an off-duty police officer belted out the song at a bar, the officer reacted to the negative comments of nearby patrons by pulling out his gun. The officer's family later decided never to play the song at family gatherings.1 Measures to prevent violence Some Filipinos, even those who love the song, won't sing it in public in order to avoid trouble.1 As of 2007, the song reportedly had been taken off of the playlists of karaoke machines in many bars in Manila after complaints about out-of-tune renditions of the song resulted in fights and deaths.3 According to a 2007 Reuters news report, the "My Way" killing phenomenon had started a few years before.4 Filipinos who can afford to do so often get private rooms at karaoke bars. Violence in some bars has led owners of the establishments to employ gay men, who use humor in defusing conflicts between male patrons over women, since the gay men are seen as neutral. The same gay men are used to smooth over conflicts over karaoke singing.1 Explanations

The phenomenon, in the words of a New York Times article, has "left Filipinos groping for answers" as to why "My Way" would be so deadly for the country's karaoke singers. "Are the killings the natural byproduct of the country’s culture of violence, drinking and machismo? Or is there something inherently sinister in the song?"1 Karaoke bars in the Philippines can often be very violent, with fights often sparked over poor singing, and the noticed number of killings connected to singing of the song may simply reflect its popularity in a violent environment, according to Roland B. Tolentino, a pop culture expert at the University of the Philippines. But he added that the song's "triumphalist" theme might also be a factor.1 Yet other tunes, just as popular in the Philippines, have not resulted in murder. Butch Albarracin, the owner of Center for Pop, a Manila-based singing school, believes the lyrics of "My Way" increase the violence. "The lyrics evoke feelings of pride and arrogance in the singer, as if you're somebody when you're really nobody," Albarracin said in a 2010 interview. "It covers up your failures. That's why it leads to fights."1 Karaoke singing is a widespread pastime in the Philippines, including among the poor, where many were earning about $2 a day in 2007 and could purchase time on a karaoke machine (called "videoke" machines in the Philippines) for 5 pesos (about 10 cents in US currency).4

"Karaoke rage" is not just limited to "My Way" in the Philippines. "There have been several reported cases of singers being assaulted, shot or stabbed mid-performance, usually over how songs are sung," according to a 2008 report in Britain's Guardian newspaper. In Malaysia in 2008, a man at a coffee shop hogged the karaoke microphone so long he was stabbed to death by other patrons.5 In Seattle, a woman reportedly punched a karaoke singer in a dispute over the man's rendition of "Yellow" by Coldplay. In Thailand, a man was arrested on charges that he shot to death eight neighbors, one of whom was his brother-in-law, in a dispute stemming from several karaoke offerings, including repeated renditions of John Denver's "Take Me Home, Country Roads".6 References ^ a b c d e f g h Onishi, Norimitsu, "Sinatra Song Often Strikes Deadly Chord", February 7, 2010, The New York Times, retrieved same day ^ Web page titled "Man shot for bad karaoke", dated May 31, 2007, Metro.co.UK website, apparently based on an Agence France Press report (the news agency is mentioned at the bottom of the page but not explicitly cited as the source of all the information on the page), retrieved February 7, 2010 ^ a b Morgan, David S., "Karaoke Fan Killed For Singing Out Of Tune: Philippines Man Shot By Guard At Karaoke Bar For Refusing To Stop Singing", CBS News website, June 2, 2007, retrieved February 7, 2010 ^ a b Article, no byline, "Karaoke the great escape in Philippine slums", April 7, 2007, Reuters website, retrieved February 7, 2010 ^ MacKinnon, Ian, "Malaysian man killed for hogging karaoke microphone", news article, December 5, 2008, The Guardian newspaper, retrieved February 7, 2010 ^ Drummond, Andrew, "John Denver karaoke sparks Thai killing spree", news article, March 8, 2008, The Daily Telegraph, retrieved February 7, 2010 v · d · eFrank Sinatra Biography · Records · Songs • Films · Awards · Personal relationships • Style • Concerts Studio albums 40s–50s The Voice of Frank Sinatra · Frankly Sentimental · Songs by Sinatra · Swing and Dance with Frank Sinatra · Songs for Young Lovers · Swing Easy! · In the Wee Small Hours · Songs for Swingin' Lovers! · Close to You · A Swingin' Affair! · Where Are You? · A Jolly Christmas from Frank Sinatra · Come Fly with Me · Frank Sinatra Sings for Only the Lonely · Come Dance with Me! · No One Cares Studio albums 60s Nice 'n' Easy · Sinatra's Swingin' Session!!! · Come Swing with Me!  · Ring-a-Ding-Ding! · Sinatra Swings · I Remember Tommy · Point of No Return · Sinatra and Strings  · Sinatra and Swingin' Brass · Sinatra Sings Great Songs from Great Britain · All Alone · Sinatra–Basie: An Historic Musical First · The Concert Sinatra · Sinatra's Sinatra · Sinatra Sings Days of Wine and Roses, Moon River, and Other Academy Award Winners · America, I Hear You Singing · It Might as Well Be Swing · Softly, as I Leave You · September of My Years · My Kind of Broadway · A Man and His Music · Moonlight Sinatra · Strangers in the Night · That's Life · Francis Albert Sinatra & Antonio Carlos Jobim · The World We Knew · Francis A. & Edward K. · The Sinatra Family Wish You a Merry Christmas · Cycles · My Way · A Man Alone Studio albums 70s–90s Watertown · Sinatra & Company · Ol' Blue Eyes Is Back · Some Nice Things I've Missed · Trilogy: Past Present Future · She Shot Me Down · L.A. 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